Pretend I made some awesome videos with pretty bubbles blowing in the air…
Today’s inspiration comes from the crazy land of Twitter and a glorious article I just read from a new Twitter friend. I am particularly talking now about local Twitter. By local Twitter I mean engaging with anyone in your area, metro area or however your area marks itself, no matter what they do. In this strategy I have a “Minnesota list”, which developed into me suggesting a Minnesota Women’s Tweetup. Next thing you know we have 85 people without much effort on our Facebook fan page, had a fantastic first meet up with about 9 or 10 of us (on a work night!) We are planning our second one with a fashion expert who will do a broad lesson then offer personal consults. (Note, this woman has found a spiritual coach person to offer a cool mind/body service – there’s joint venturing right there!)
Why do I do this local Twitter stuff? The primary reason is that it’s JUST PLAIN FUN. I’ve been meeting people online since the mid 1990′s and there is something wildly fun about meeting strangers that aren’t quite strangers because you have a “common space” to engage in daily life. In this case the common space is Twitter, and for some of these women, Facebook friending.
You’re probably wondering, what the heck? What does local Twitter have to do with bubbles? And seriously, where are you going to talk about mental health therapy stuff?
Never fear. I’m there now.
A hugely important marketing strategy is to embed yourself in the marketplace. I talked about this a few posts back. The key for Marketing 2.0 is to use natural tools, like social media, to connect with a wide variety of people. In this way it is my personal and professional interest to be as connected with Minnesotans on Twitter as I humanly can. Each of these people I meet, and here’s where the bubbles come in, has their OWN bubble, or network, of friends, colleagues, trusted allies, and followings. Each human being has their own bubble and when bubbles come together, they either expand (the MN Women’s Tweetup is an expansion bubble as we form a bigger bubble), or they stick together on an edge of their bubble (joint ventures while maintaining their own bubbles and only touching another persons bubble in one particular area of their work. In other words, you don’t need to have a best-friend-forever to have a joint venture. You don’t even have to have ANYTHING in common except some shared interest to serve your audiences.)
Why am I excited about all this? One of my new Twitter friends who I haven’t actually yet met just asked me if I read her latest post. I’m glad she asked because it’s thrilling! It’s about her first experience with counseling and an encouragement to her wide variety of friends who are scared of counseling (but would benefit from it.) Read the article and hopefully you’re as excited as I am that a lay person can be so encouraging and so honest.
Now what does this mean? Who knows. This is where you drop your ego, open your heart, and just be available. I told her privately that some day when I’m a therapist I’d be a trusted referral, and that I love those who are afraid of therapy. But what else? Perhaps she interviews me for her blog some day in the future, simply to help expand the mental health advocacy she is clearly blogging about. Right now she’s thrilled that I’m linking to HER blog post. Right now, in this moment, she just dramatically opened up about her private life in the hopes it helps others. And I deeply respect that. The future is unknown, but I’m proud to have met her online and some day hopefully soon, in person.
And that, my awesome blog readers, is Web Marketing 2.0. Notice there are no business card exchanges, no brochures? Just two human beings connecting. And it’s not even “marketing” per se. It’s building relationships and seeing where things go. Her post makes me excited as nerves build for my graduate school interview tomorrow. She inspires me to go into the interview, confident of why I’m entering this wild land of mental health…to help awesome people like her when life gets rough.




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Nice post abt networking and very understandable. Most of the time I cant understand concretely what the meet-up thing is all abt, now I do, thanks!
Great post! I read your friend’s post when you linked to it earlier today on twitter. Therapists need to become more available. I am excited about opportunities that can open up when we are willing to give our time to another human being.
Really thought provoking piece, Elizabeth! I must admit this is one area I need to put some effort to, and now you’ve given me some excellent reasons to put some passion and get going on this! I also found your friends blog post authentic and powerful, and hope to post it on my website and blog that I hope will be ready in a couple of weeks. Thanks for this post, enjoyed it!
Good article Elizabeth. YOu made the point very well of the value of twitter. Wanted to add the following post to just put an exclamation pt. to yours about using lists on twitter. http://www.taragentile.com/twitter-fame/ I use Twitter regularly and get good things/relationships from it but after reading yours and the other article I referenced think I could be using better. Thanks, Cherry
Interesting article, Elizabeth. Love the bubbles metaphor, especially your point about everyone having their own bubble of contacts that we tap into. I’ve made some wonderful friends through Twitter who have been generous supporters. Thanks for the reminder that there’s always more to do! ~Dawn
Can I be a satellite member of your Minnesotan crowd? I live in Los Angeles, and a local Twitter may be a bit vague, broad, and self-involved…
I agree that Twitter is amazing to connect, and it doesn’t always have that cheesy, salesy vibe, either.
TY for the wonderful idea:)
P.S. I imagine you blew ‘em out of the water during your grad school interview.
Wonderful Elizabeth, I have noticed that I have some local twitter friends, but never thought about having a special (bubble) list. Great idea and wonderful story.
OK – so I have my Twitter lists – NOW what do I do with them? Like literally? I can’t find a way to send a message out to just that list. How would you organize a tweet up if you can’t send a message directly to your group bubble. Help!
Hi Miriam!
Ah, yes, you can’t send a mass Tweet to a list. You either talk with a few and eventually get a big train going of inviting people to something, or you create a hash tag and get everyone to know what it is so they can “talk” with each other via a hashtag.
Similarly you could Tweet throughout the day – Rosewell, GA folks, G2G info {with a link to RSVP}
A lot of times it’s easier to get everyone on FB and create a group rather than have the blur of Twitter.
Elizabeth